It’s the nature of things in the modern society we live in… Thousands of people using a mobile phone face erotic material on a regular basis! And in case you are like the majority of the men (and women, me included) I work and play with, you might have perhaps (at a minimum) been curious about the whole adult phone phenomenon. .

“I’ll tell you what” she finally explained … “Not really. Perhaps initially I suppose I was, After all he was calling various other ladies in order to fill needs that I was supposed to be filling, yet I came to the conclusion there was really no harm done.

He was getting in touch with women he had certainly not seen in his life, to act on fantasy impulses which i might be not comfortable with and I suppose that I did feel awkward, though at the same time willing to put in context.

“If I’m completely honest with you, it didn’t bother me that much! Well, I suppose in the beginning I was, but you know what, I was more worried about the fact that he had used my credit card to pay for this, and at least, the service he called was cheap. You may say that what he did was cheating, and I would understand your point of view, but at the end of the day, this is not how I saw that. Were his actions welcome? No. Not really. Were they reprehensible? I don’t feel so. If you take into consideration the “trouble” we cause sometimes and the amount of banter we get up to with people we meet when we go on our ladies night, you know, the innuendos, and the gentle flirting, then I don’t what he did was any worse! So no… I wasn’t angry!”

Needless to say, I found her answer really interesting. To think that this was the girl who waited until she was 18 to have her first kiss. Who thought we were too young when we had ours. And there she was, giving me a lesson in forgiveness and open mindedness. How she had taken all of this was a revelation. She actually didn’t mind and saw that he had been talking to invisible women, and such they had no immediate effect on her relationship. “These women are illusions, I know it, and more importantly, he knows it too” she added and she was right.

Had I not caught my own husband watching porn on several occasions, without me? “Bob (my husband) watches porn and I’ve caught him many times”! I had to admit. “I can understand your point of view though since when that happen, I was angry with him, not because he was watching porn, but because he was doing it without me”!

And even as I was about to develop my own, personal argument further, she interrupted me.

“As I was dealing with the fact that it was my credit card that he had used to pay for these adult phone calls, it dawned on me that I might have enjoyed it myself. Why not? We’ve always had a lot of fun in the bedroom, if you know what I mean, so why shouldn’t I join in the fun!”

I was taken aback! After al, this was the woman who was my dear sweet childhood close friend I was speaking with. The woman who had her very first kiss a full year or so after I had mine… The girl who waited to have sex until she was ready for it, which turned out to be after she graduated from college. And here she was revealing to that she and her husband were thinking about virtual and intimate multiple partners affairs. It was crazy… And also remarkable.

“I was afraid to ask her if she did do this! I mean I already knew what her answer would be. But I had to ask her anyway!

“Of course I did! And I loved it. It was quite an experience and all I can tell you is that you should try it!”