I got of the phone a while ago with a caller who was really sad that he and his wife had grown away from each other so much that he didn’t really remember the last time they had sex. It is a very sad situation when a man and woman find themselves in such a rut, given the passion that they probably had towards each other when they first got married. There are many ways to resurrect romance if couples put their mind into it and one of them is definitely free phone sex for married couples masturbation.

Now, you may wonder why use the phone for sex when you and your wife might as well walk to their bedroom and “do it for real” and that would be a valid question, if for the fact that sleeping on the same bed hasn’t encouraged them to have sex in the first place and there is no reason why this would change now. The key is to bring spice back into the marriage. Re-create the magic so to speak. Remind each other the wonders of intimacy. All a couple needs is a little imagination. And an open mind.

Think about it. The phone has been used for sex for longer than I have been alive!!! Phone sex is one the most popular forms of entertainment adults have. It’s safe, it’s easy and it’s cheap!

It is one thing for singles to call phone sex numbers if they don’t have a partner at home, but why would married people even think about it? The answer to this question is that the telephone an environment in which people feel safe. The fact that they don’t see each other means that during a telephone conversation, the only thing that matters is the sound of the voice, the words used, the tones, all these wonderful attributes that can intrigue and titillate anyone.

You may look at this and say that what I am saying is easy in practice but difficult to achieve in reality, but I tell you that it isn’t all that difficult. I was watching a news program the other day when the anchor was recalling how she had progressed in a career from being a telephone marketing lady to a wildly watched news anchor. A question was put from one of her guests as to how difficult if must have been to be a telephone marketer and her response was highly relevant:

 It was really simple. Every time I worked I assumed a different role.

In other other words, one day she was Kathy, the self confident woman who drove the conversation. Another day she was Diana, an innocent young woman… etc…

So if you are in a marriage and find yourself not making love to your partner, become the news anchor for a while.  Call your spouse, get chatting.  Pick up the phone.  You don’t have to talk about sex straight away but as you become more comfortable, and you develop phone identities that intrigue both you and your spouse,  you will soon find yourself in a middle of a torrid phone sex conversation that will probably spread to the bedroom!

Hear this, dating isn’t all that great. I would know! I have sampled the “delights” of trying to find a suitable dating partner for a few months and I can tell you it isn’t as easy as what the brochure says. Now I really should notify you that this article was authored by me personally, a guy in my mid 50s and it goes without saying that my female readers have probably have as much, if not more to say about their own “interesting” challenges in this wonderful world of adult relationship. Nevertheless, it’s my blog post so…. 🙂

A last thought before proceeding with my story, allow me to state unequivocally that I am definitely not laying blame to any of the dating sites with regard to anything. They offer a system, no matter what it could be, and we do with it what we want. All in all, all of us need to deal with our very own human flaws and maybe they are the ones who make the internet dating world such a hard one to deal with. Of course, whilst intimacy is one of the reasons why people want to connect, if this is what you are after, then you might as well give some consideration to phonesex which has the advantages of being cheap and immediately available!

Something else: in days gone by, both males and females would likely come across their respective life partner simply because they saw 1 another in a friend’s house, knew somebody who knew somebody, or even lived in a small community where everyone knew their neighbors. Modern society has drastically evolved in the past few years and with the growth connected with technologies, the favored starting point connect with someone is certainly over the internet with the inherent challenges this process generates.

Now, what exactly is it with regards to going on a date which can be so hard. That’s not to say that we are all after one thing and nothing else, because that wouldn’t be true. I’ll deal with this topic later on. Apparently, we are so willing to misbehave that a strong “motherly” hand is often employed by the lovely ladies and as such they never walk away from a good opportunity to reprimand and lecture us publicly, on their profiles.